Love is a verb

Life hacks, tips and perspective

I remember some lines from one of my favourite movies where the main character, a schoolteacher, asks his class why we read and write poetry. And he said, “We don’t read and write poetry because it’s cute. We read and write poetry because we are memb...

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People

Business Challenge

Ideas don't move mountains - people do. Yes, ideas are important, but people are fundamental. Surround yourself with good people. Building a company is about people developing and nurturing a culture. Motivating the people around you is a never ending mission – it requires you to set the pace...

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Business Challenges

Every working person has challenges with people. How to make an impression. How to build relationships. How to delight people. We could all use some inspiration and help from time to time.

Don’t be afraid to start – just don’t get analysis paralysis. Be agile, and try things, even if they are not perfect. And if you fail, then learn from the mistakes and try again, Or, call it a day, and try something totally different....

Failure Does Not Mean It Is Over
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Selling, selling and more selling – this is what entrepreneurs do, internally and of course, externally. Inspiring people and exciting those around you is a constant activity. When you love what you do, and you do what you love, then i...

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Life hacks, tips and perspectives

Common sense is not always common practice. There are unspoken rules that we need to follow. Professionalism. Respect. Honesty. And also, we need an element of imagination and creativity – a colourful way to get people loosened up.

WhatsApp have more than a billion worldwide users, but most of them aren't in America. Why is that?

WhatsApp with America?
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Be professional – don’t arrive late for meetings. In fact, arriving a bit earlier is always a good thing. But, if you genuinely get stuck on route and you do arrive late then act gracefully and do the right thing – apologize and be sin...

5 tips in case you arrive late for a meeting
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Icebreakers

Connecting with people in this intense wired world is challenging. A light touch can go a long way to making people feel comfortable. When people are at ease people talk more freely and relationships develop.

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Invisible Ray-gun
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Cellphone Banking
Cellphone Banking
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Talking Points and Conversation Starters

Tired of talking about the weather? A bit of stimulus and curiosity are always good for making conversation. Icebreakers can help with the heavy lifting but sometimes just a hot topic can serve as the glue that binds two people.

At the Lion Sands Game Reserve you’re probably more likely to have a conversation with a large carnivorous cat than an actual person.

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